I learned
long after I should
friendship comes not
in fizz and pour
nor the brightness of
shower and radiance
nor promise and its papery craft of bows
but more often unexpected slow
hesitant over years
water leaving her tears on
marble rock
stalwart and less demonstrative
a cat who watches food put out
does not immediately approach
I fell for the fireworks
the hot kiss on lost ego
glittering words
feathered protests to believe
those party animals in their tinsel crowns
pushing me toward celebration
in those days I did not mind
the quiet soul who hung back
someone you could call upon
when deserters ran out of festivity
turned their backs on former animation
I was suckered by their demands to believe
their loudest call was truth, hear me!
now I know quiet love is the steadiest
those who may seem cold or aloof
often outlast town crier
hawking themselves for fancy
I’m sorry it took me so long to
understand silence and softness
are more often truth
much like the piper who
sung children through the mountain
bewitching their longing for loud
merriment
before they grew and knew
the sweetness of sincerity
whispered